TERENGGANU TABOOS
When I was a small boy, ages ago of course, I was told not to
- Sit on a pillow or I will get a boil on my butt
- Whistle in the house or a snake will come
- Eat the crispy fish head or I will be stupid
- Point a finger at the rainbow or my finger will be crooked
- Cut my fingernails at night or the ghosts will use the clippings as boats and come and get me.
- Pour a lot of budu (anchovy sauce) on my rice as if it were gravy or it will rain and flood on my wedding day
- etcetera etcetera
Whistling is not encouraged anywhere. I don't know why. Probably the whistler's mother have good ear for tunes and could not stand to hear good songs being murdered. Better stop it with the threat of a slithery snake. Of course, at that time, we didn't know that snakes are generally deaf. The snake charmer has to move his flute to get the snake's attention.
Taboos too serve as moulders and shapers of social etiquette. It is rude to point, whatever culture you are in. There no better time to teach the young how to point than when admiring a beautiful natural phenomenon like the rainbow. As for the budu, Terengganu table manners dictate that it is taken sparingly with a fingerful of ikang panggang (grilled fish). Using it as gravy will deplete it faster, leaving none for the rest.
Of course, if you believe in taboos, you might want to make them work FOR you. Young girls with a penchant for father figures might try singing while frying fish in the kitchen. You are promised an old man as a husband. His financial status however wasn't mentioned at all. Neither was the choice of songs. Singing Hindustani songs might not get Amithabh Bachan as your husband.
Young men dreaming of a harem might do well to change seats many times during dinner. It is predicted that you will marry many times, preferably not to the same person.
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